While culturally time appropriate, this post originally had nothing to do with New Years or resolutions. I actually drafted most of the ideas back in October but I’m just now getting around to finishing it up. I suppose because the calendar is such a pivotal part of our world, its somewhat natural to use the first of the year to decide on some changes or goals, but honestly, change should be happening throughout the year – whenever it’s necessity is recognized. Life is a process of growing.
It’s funny how you can’t ask difficult questions in a familiar place, how you have to stand back a few feet and see things in a new way before you realize nothing that is happening to you is normal. The trouble with you and me is we are used to what is happening to us. We grew into our lives like a kernel beneath the earth, never able to process the enigma of our composition…Nothing is normal. It is all rather odd, isn’t it, our eyes in our heads, our hands with five fingers, the capacity to understand beauty, to feel love, to feel pain.
-Donald Miller, Through Painted Deserts: Light, God, and Beauty on the Open Road
I’ve written little ‘tidbits’ about perspective in the past (Perspective 1, Perspective 2)… When I came across the above quote it just reminded me, again, of the many lessons I’ve learned, repeatedly, over the past year. One of the most recurring lessons has been nurturing a particular healthy perspective. There’s practical perspective. There’s logical perspective. I’ve been instilled all my life, through parenting and school, with practical and logical perspective – being able to reason out issues. Working out issues (often times with the input and help of others) comes naturally to me. I do it daily – in my job. But that only gets someone so far.